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Fresh road

Published April 1, 2021 By bijayshrestha

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Your mind will take the shape of what you frequently hold in thought, for the human spirit is colored by such impressions.
~ Marcus Aurelius

^{Dream Chaser – Joey Kidney}

This is not rocket science.

You don’t have to ask a terminal patient what it’s like to be able to go through a normal day — merely breathing easy with their lungs, stealing smiles, feeling painless, and cherish and celebrate every single day of their remaining days; and at the same time also having to go through fear that — any one moment could be the end of their chapter.

Please take a moment and re-read what I just wrote above and please don’t rush there.

My grand mother who passed away 6 months ago opened me to this remarkable, starling realization without saying a word.

That to me ‘Memento Mori’ will always be of significant utility than ‘Carpe diem!’ aphorism.

To say the least —

I cannot emphasize enough that everyday’s a fresh road.

That yesterday ended and will never be the same way again.

That today will forever be the most important day of our entire one full life.

That we are ephemeral beings and so are our problems.

That, death is inevitable.

That nothing in life presented to you is not fresh.

Namaste.

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To all my Ex-es

Published March 25, 2021 By bijayshrestha

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Unrequited love is the infinite curse of a lonely heart. ~ Anonymous

Dennis Lloyd – NEVERMIND

To all my Ex-es,

My girlfriend name calls you and teases me.

Thank you for the memories.

Thank you for giving up on me.

Wish you all — a lifetime of blissful joy and lifelong fullfilment.

Namaste.

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Nothing to give.

Published March 18, 2021 By bijayshrestha

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At times it’s okay if you do yourself a favor and don’t be too damn serious.
~Musicpervs

Nindaraan Diyaan – Blackmail

I’m certain there are few of you who wait for a week for a freshly pressed Musicpervs.

But this time my friend, I’ve nothing to give as well as offer with grace..

Nights.

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What do you want to do with this one precious life?

Published March 11, 2021 By bijayshrestha

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Live immediately!
~ Seneca

Maple Whiskey – James Spaite

Friends.

All that matters is that you are here.

All well.

All put together.

Able to breathe.

Able to walk, talk, see, taste.

Able to feel your heartbeats and the skins of your skin.

Able!

And,

all you must know is that life is not without ends.

That our birth in-and-itself is a death sentence.

That the fire will eventually extinguish!

That no matter your instagram is full of glary and flary shits but the truth is celebrations drains and depletes over time! All the time.

That life will inevitably suck at different point-in-time.

That today is important for the rest of our life.

And,

one simple, profound, question that saves me from

all the misfortunes and miseries,

worries and weird twists,

fears and losses,

painful past and the uncertain future is —

What do you want to do with this one precious life?

Namaste.

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What do you need in life?

Published February 25, 2021 By bijayshrestha

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“It is during our darkest moments that we must focus to see the light.” –Aristotle

^{No air – Lúc}

Question: What do you need in life?

Perhaps,

Kindness.

The Drive.

Unconditional love and acceptance.

Real Friendship.

Maybe,

True joy.

The positive vibes.

Genuine curosity.

A quiet mind.

Healthy health.

A Calm Tummy, and most importantly

Peaceful Sleep

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Do the math

Published February 18, 2021 By bijayshrestha

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“Man does not simply exist but always decides what his existence will be, what he will become the next moment. By the same token, every human being has the freedom to change at any instant.” ~ Viktor Emil Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning

^{Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara Farhan Akhtar Poem} ^-1

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^{Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara Farhan Akhtar Poem – 3}

^{Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara Farhan Akhtar Poem – 4 | Ye Jaane Kaisa Raaz Hai}

If we were to live for the next 50 years, We will approximately have

600 months,

2,607.14 weeks,

and 18,250 hours left.

Nonetheless, looking at these numbers

should, wake us all up from our deepest pits of despair and disgust, excuses and expectations, unfair compromises and loud complains.

and must, for obvious reasons push us into thinking that even if we’re to waste a single hour of our remaining time on something that’s not adding any … and I fucking mean a.n.y value to our lives — we rightly so deserve to be living an unfulfilled-painful-wasted life by our own accord.

You see, with clean numbers, maths becomes a breeze.

Do the math my friends!

Namaste.

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It’s just a break up

Published January 28, 2021 By bijayshrestha

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Wait, until it all makes sense. ~ Author

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gqZYnDdgKgw

^{XXXTENTACION – Changes}

This was October 2016.

Mum asked,”Babu, is everything okay? I might be mistaken but I heard you sob.”

I remember I had replied,”Don’t worry mum, it’s just a break up!”

Looking back, I was right — It was just that one fucking horse shit!

And, true — shits can only stink for so long.

This was April 2019.

Finally, Found her.

We shared each other’s bittersweet stories.

We vowed for the best of partnership.

We embraced each others’ imperfections.

Most importantly, hands on heart — I love her like there’s no tomorrow, waiting!

In a nutshell, life’s a mix of Fuckerries.

Bad and the best ones.

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ERP

Published January 21, 2021 By bijayshrestha

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“The rank of office is not what makes someone a leader. Leadership is the choice to serve others with or without any formal rank.”
~ Simon Sinek, Leaders Eat Last Deluxe: Why Some Teams Pull Together and Others Don’t

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iyaJL9F5hsU

^{Tu Hai Kahaan by Advait & Aman}

Enterprise Resource Planning (ERP) Department — because we were to develop an enterprise software for Buddha Air. That’s all I had in my mind when I started the ERP at F1soft.

Nikesh, Ayush and I would for sure laugh our butt out, must we retrace our memories back to our first version of the application. It was cooly fucked with Angular JS and Java (Spring Framework)!

Nikesh Maharjan, Aayush Regmi, Pukar Shrestha, Pradip Rimal, Sunita Joshi, Akash Shrestha, Erika Joshi, Sabu Shakya, Smriti Mool, Kaushal Regmi, Suraj Gautam, Sushant Khanal, Subash Shankhadev, Rovich Maharjan, Pratik Shrestha, Pragya Maharjan, Karuna Singh, Deepika Khadka, Neelima Maharjan, Samikshya Ghimire, Sudeshna Shakya, Urusha Shrestha, Biru Shrestha, Ashish Subedi, Sauravi Thapa, Sudin Shakya, Dhanusha Roka, Rupak Chaulagain.

These are my extended family for life! These are why my imagination of ERP will forever live within me until I do.

And I want to extend my deepest, earnest, ‘A BIG. Fat. Chubby. Sexy Thank You’ to you all for a beautiful all-for-fucking-worth-it journey.

Namaste.

p.s. don’t miss this piece by one of my most cherished mentor, Simon Sinek (author of best sellers Leaders Eat Last and Start with Why)

p.p.s honorary mentions — Mr, Bikesh Amatya, Mr. Pravesh Mathema, Mr. Bandeju Shakya, Mr. Sapan Sharma

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Breakups

Published December 24, 2020 By bijayshrestha

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“We suffer more in our imagination more often than in reality.” ~ Seneca

^{Kina – Wish I Was Better (Lyrics) feat. yaeow}

From how I understand Breakups —

Breakup is always a choice.

Better if mutual.

Best if one of the two fucks up. Because you see, that holy fucker is merely an opportunistic scavenger; and undoubtedly a ‘would-have-been’ lifelong baggage of regrets. An imbecile pathogen per se.

My friend, Breakups bends but mends.

Rationally weighing over it — there’s no ugly side.

p.s. learned the word ‘imbecile’ from a netflix movie ‘Serious Men’.

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