{"id":4666,"date":"2019-02-14T20:51:19","date_gmt":"2019-02-14T15:06:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/?p=4666"},"modified":"2020-12-01T13:41:26","modified_gmt":"2020-12-01T07:56:26","slug":"to-love-is-timeless","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/2019\/02\/14\/to-love-is-timeless\/","title":{"rendered":"Don&#8217;t inflate Love. Let love exist. Suspire."},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\">3<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span><h1 style=\"text-align: center;\">Laal Ishq &#8211; Arijit Singh<\/h1>\n<p><iframe title=\"LAAL ISHQ - Full Audio Song | Deepika Padukone &amp; Ranveer Singh | Goliyon Ki Raasleela Ram-leela\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/PycY_BqbWaw?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<pre>[Part 1]<\/pre>\n<p>As I write this seated on my chair, underneath a warm-lamp on the table which\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/pukarshrstha\/\">puku<\/a> generously gifted; Adele&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=0put0_a--Ng\">&#8216;Make you feel my love&#8217;\u00a0<\/a>\u00a0loops over and over, gracing the entire room in every piano strokes and with every words sung.<\/p>\n<p>I like it here!<\/p>\n<p>Now, this thing I&#8217;m going to deduce for you is gravely unpopular. Perhaps disturbing too, especially if your sweet brain is\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Serotonin\">serotonin<\/a>\u00a0stoned &#8212;<\/strong>\u00a0by virtue of all these meaningless, well-orchestrated Valentine&#8217;s day holy gawd rituals.<\/p>\n<p>So, I don&#8217;t recommend reading any further if you absolutely dislike my idea of ridiculing how our love has been commercially manipulated and sold to us.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Happy<\/strong>\u00a0<strong>Valentine&#8217;s day my gigantic lovebirds!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>.\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 .\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 .<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mum explains,&#8221;Valentine&#8217;s Day are for amateurs. Because, the real ones,&#8230; a true, deep and meaningful love requires <strong>all 365 days<\/strong> of everyday trust, support, understanding, care, and appreciation, and gratification and above all else the awe-wonderment despite few un-intended frictions; despite few wrong turns, despite every worst things that can happen; despite death.&#8221; On hindsight it looks more like a practically impossible <strong>vow<\/strong> <strong>to make<\/strong>\u00a0as well as<strong>\u00a0to keep at par\u00a0<\/strong>but behold, it&#8217;s true. Isn&#8217;t it?<\/p>\n<p>Which is why, I <strong>wouldn&#8217;t trade one particular day for the rest of the other days in my mortal calendar<\/strong> to make the love of my life feel really, really, really special. No!<\/p>\n<p><strong>F#%$<\/strong>, <strong>No!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Despite. Regardless, I&#8217;d like to practice open-mindedness.<\/p>\n<p>Compulsively! Deliberately. Lovingly.<\/p>\n<p>And, so, I really don&#8217;t despise this so-called <strong>love slash romance<\/strong> <strong>day-of-the-year<\/strong> for all good intents and purposes.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s just that I&#8217;m not much of a fan of St. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.markmerrill.com\/the-real-story-behind-valentines-day\/\">Valentine&#8217;s death<\/a> day.<\/p>\n<pre>[Part 2]<\/pre>\n<p>It&#8217;s time, we cut all the <em>bs<\/em> thrown around &#8216;<strong>love&#8217;<\/strong>\u00a0narrative.<\/p>\n<p>Which unknowingly, I&#8217;ve been <strong>a source myself<\/strong> of many such pompous\u00a0<em>jargons<\/em>,\u00a0<em>in many, different\u00a0<\/em>occasions around my journey with pen and papers.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>.\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 .\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 .<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s time, we love from the profundity of gentleness, and stop buying into these expensive forms of love-business abstractions;<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s time we save our <strong>&#8216;love&#8217;<\/strong> from being sold<\/p>\n<p>over superfluous gifts and ephemeral pleasure gigs,<\/p>\n<p>over hard-to-keep promises and esoteric vocabs,<\/p>\n<p>over inorganic tales, talks and triumph stories<\/p>\n<p>like <del>Valentine&#8217;s<\/del> itself.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Because,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> at last, love is merely a language, a calling, an expression and the literature of souls.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And, to love truly and fiercely is to have a courage to sink in, pour out, befall and fall free,<\/p>\n<p>without any brush of influence, expectations and artificial pressure<\/p>\n<p><strong>but<\/strong> <strong>merely, merely a WILL to give and share <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>every fabric of your being, <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>your whole Life Project<\/strong>\u00a0<strong>in every smallest detail possible.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tonight, give time. Save roses!<\/p>\n<p>Share experiences. Be present here and now.<\/p>\n<p>Celebrate togetherness. Rejoice mortality.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t inflate love. Let love exist.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Suspire.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>.\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 .\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 .<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>On an ending note: The great Danish philosopher <strong>Soren Kierkegaard<\/strong> although never married, anguished for years over the existential personal puzzle of love and marriage. To which, he transformed the question into a revolutionary book,\u00a0<i><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0140445773\/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0140445773&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=litekick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Either-Or<\/a><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.assoc-amazon.com\/e\/ir?t=litekick-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0140445773\" alt=\"\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" border=\"0\" \/><\/i>, published anonymously as\u00a0<i>Enten-Eller<\/i>\u00a0in 1943.<\/p>\n<p>In the book he writes, \u201cMarry, and you will regret it; don\u2019t marry, you will also regret it; marry or don\u2019t marry, you will regret it either way. Laugh at the world\u2019s foolishness, you will regret it; weep over it, you will regret that too; laugh at the world\u2019s foolishness or weep over it, you will regret both. Believe a woman, you will regret it; believe her not, you will also regret it\u2026 Hang yourself, you will regret it; do not hang yourself, and you will regret that too; hang yourself or don\u2019t hang yourself, you\u2019ll regret it either way; whether you hang yourself or do not hang yourself, you will regret both. This, gentlemen, is the essence of all philosophy.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>Happy Valentines once again!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>(Giggles)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\">3<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span> Laal Ishq &#8211; Arijit Singh [Part 1] As I write this seated on my chair, underneath a warm-lamp on the table which\u00a0puku generously gifted; Adele&#8217;s&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/2019\/02\/14\/to-love-is-timeless\/\">Continue Reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Don&#8217;t inflate Love. Let love exist. 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