{"id":5273,"date":"2019-10-03T21:57:05","date_gmt":"2019-10-03T16:12:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/?p=5273"},"modified":"2019-10-03T23:31:40","modified_gmt":"2019-10-03T17:46:40","slug":"thats-why-youll-fail-in-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/2019\/10\/03\/thats-why-youll-fail-in-life\/","title":{"rendered":"That&#8217;s why you&#8217;ll fail in life"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\">2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span><h1 class=\"title style-scope ytd-video-primary-info-renderer\" style=\"text-align: center;\">Ayushmann \u00a0&#8211; Chan Kitthan<\/h1>\n<p><iframe width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/JFYCc577kjQ?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>The rule of the game is already set my friend.<\/p>\n<p>Today, I&#8217;m speaking about the alleyways, the long stretch highways to failures! (<em>ain&#8217;t sure about the success&#8217;s<\/em>)<\/p>\n<pre style=\"text-align: center;\">-Let's begin-<\/pre>\n<p>You wake up every morning &#8212; mentally drained, soulfully fucked, clearly unmotivated and lost and frustrated and depressingly empty and sure enough &#8212; expecting most of your days to pass just the same. Stale!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Well, that&#8217;s why you&#8217;ll fail in life, my friend.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You are pathologically cerebral, meaning: you feed slash spend most of your precious time befriending these stinking, ill-informed, ill-formed, bantering, complaining, skull-numbing and resentful thoughts all the time. <strong>That&#8217;s why you&#8217;ll fail in life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You lack goals and purpose and more specifically a will for change and especially the demanding strength to take right\u00a0<strong>actions<\/strong>. Instead you are so full of shits and complains and wild arrogance and willful ignorance. <strong>That&#8217;s why you&#8217;ll fail in life, dear friend.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re the slave of instant gratification which is why you&#8217;d kill yourself to live and to dream of meaningless slash ephemeral convenience slash pleasures every hour of every day. And, t<strong>hat&#8217;s why you&#8217;ll fail in life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You despise plans. You don&#8217;t have time for learning and reading. Obviously, you&#8217;ve mastered flinching. You&#8217;re easily intimidated. And, in a laconic sense of<a href=\"https:\/\/stevenpressfield.com\"> Steven Pressfield<\/a>, you let resistance (<em>self-sabotage, procrastination, fear, arrogance, self-doubt<\/em>) wash and squash you over and over. Most certainly, you&#8217;ve killed a vivid adventurer within you. Plus, you&#8217;ve lost the senses to your pulverized, paralyzed curiosity muscles. And, t<strong>hat&#8217;s why you&#8217;ll fail in life, mate!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve no thirst for solitude and you fear boredom in the likes of predator and a prey relationship. You spend too much time passively scrolling and browsing; renting out your eyeballs slash priceless attention for nothing. To nothing. \u00a0<strong>That&#8217;s why you&#8217;ll fail in life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re irresponsible towards yourself. Your growth per se. You have no patience, no sense of direction, no philosophy, no shred of groomed slash cultivated wisdom and absolutely not a fucking sense of what the f*ck&#8217;s going on in your life. However, rather cocksure about the dull\/ dilute fairness and unfairness measurements. All in your head! All in your fucking head.\u00a0<strong>That&#8217;s why you&#8217;ll fail in life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re a people pleaser. You have zero focus towards educating slash empowering slash enabling yourself. You, the &#8216;<em>Yes Man<\/em>&#8216; (with every bones in your body) worry about what other ought and must perceive of you more than relying on the best of life tools such as constant self-reflections, regular self-examinations and shameless self-corrections. And, t<strong>hat&#8217;s why you&#8217;ll fail in life, my beloved friend.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Finally, to wrap this list of acrid truths regarding<strong>\u00a0failure symptoms<\/strong>\u00a0I&#8217;d like to end with a quote from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=dh9Wro8BsgI\">Oriah\u00a0(an author of a poem \u00a0&#8212; The Invitation)<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>It doesn&#8217;t interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart&#8217;s longing.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn&#8217;t interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dreams, for the adventure of being alive.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230; It doesn&#8217;t interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away. I want to know if you can be alone with yourself, and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=_MB8hmZ7ulI\"><strong>Oriah Mountain Dreamer from the book &#8220;The Invitation&#8221;<\/strong><\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>p.s. click on the links above for powerful visuals.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\">2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span> Ayushmann \u00a0&#8211; Chan Kitthan The rule of the game is already set my friend. Today, I&#8217;m speaking about the alleyways, the long stretch highways to&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/2019\/10\/03\/thats-why-youll-fail-in-life\/\">Continue Reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">That&#8217;s why you&#8217;ll fail in life<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[76,77,78,79],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5273"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5273"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5273\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5278,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5273\/revisions\/5278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5273"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5273"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5273"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}