{"id":5395,"date":"2019-11-07T23:44:21","date_gmt":"2019-11-07T17:59:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/?p=5395"},"modified":"2021-05-06T20:07:17","modified_gmt":"2021-05-06T14:22:17","slug":"friendship-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/2019\/11\/07\/friendship-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Friendship"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\">2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube alignfull wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"Sathi   Sushant KC\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/KY6YZJk1sDI?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption>Sathi &#8211; Sushant KC<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\"><p style=\"background:#f7c443\"><em>\u201cF<strong>riendship is unnecessary,\u201d<\/strong><\/em><strong>&nbsp;C.S. Lewis&nbsp;<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.brainpickings.org\/2014\/09\/08\/c-s-lewis-four-loves-friendship\/\"><strong>wrote<\/strong><\/a><strong>,&nbsp;<\/strong><em><strong>\u201clike philosophy, like art, like the universe itself\u2026 it has no survival value; rather it is one of those things which give value to survival.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Not all your friends and followers on facebook, instagram and twitter will attend your funeral or even care to shed a teardrop on your passing away!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Friendship cannot be ordinary. It&#8217;s a luxury.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Friendship, my friend is like f<strong>alling in lov<\/strong>e with this<strong> o<\/strong>ne person. Symbiotic, unconditional, heavy to fathom, heavenly to have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not many care to acknowledge but genuine friends and for-real friendships is a celebration of happiness but such equally is the <strong>sadn<\/strong>ess too. Matter of fact, friendships without shared despair and compassion is dubious. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery alignfull columns-1 is-cropped\"><ul class=\"blocks-gallery-grid\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"650\" height=\"472\" src=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/friendship-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"5400\" data-link=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/?attachment_id=5400\" class=\"wp-image-5400\" srcset=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/friendship-1.jpg 650w, http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/friendship-1-300x218.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\" \/><figcaption class=\"blocks-gallery-item__caption\">Illustration by Maurice Sendak from\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.brainpickings.org\/2014\/01\/29\/lets-be-enemies-maurice-sendak\/\">a vintage ode to friendship<\/a>\u00a0by Janice May Udry<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Friendship is an uncomfortable, shameless, unfiltered exchange of words and at times interjected with awkward silences too. It&#8217;s about earning trust, <strong>fecking<\/strong> judgements, cultivating loyalty, comforting the other, helping one another and more important of all &#8212; growing to<strong>gether.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Friendship with all sincerity is about less and less screen time and more about melting conversations; about respecting differences and rejoicing shared values. It&#8217;s not some voodoo crap, you&#8217;ll very much know it in your blood and bones when you&#8217;ve made this special bond with someone truly amazing. They can be your own parents, siblings, cousins, boyfriend, girlfriends, classmates, colleagues, any human and even non-humans for example your pets.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Never mistake friendship for people you dance, party, walk, tour, eat, drink, and laugh with. Friendship goes way deeper than that; it begets from being truly grateful for having found each other and cherish such commotions for as long as the two live. Simply put, honest friendship is merely about just being<strong> there<\/strong> and caring <strong>enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Personally the revealing realization of true friendship occurred to me when i had butterflies all over my stomach and the restless beatings of heart &#8212; budump! <strong>budump<\/strong>! budump! along with nauseating feeling of out of breathe whenever I was meeting my friends (including my own <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/bishow_writes\/\">brother<\/a> and a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/sabishrestha25\/\">sister<\/a>) in the airport. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>[haha]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A friend is one less arsehole in life. And of course, without a shred of doubt, f.r.i.e.n.d.s.h.i.p <strong>is<\/strong> the most rewarding, rare expedition for a lifetime but sadly only for a lucky <strong>few<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now that you know about friendship, briefly, we can conclusively say :-<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Friends are forever <strong>\u092a\u093e\u0938\u093e\u0964 <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And, Friendship is <strong>\u090f\u0909\u091f\u093e \u092e\u093f\u0920\u094b  \u0915\u0925\u093e\u0964 <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Finally, on a departing note, I&#8217;d like to end with Seneca&#8217;s noble reason for forming a friendship, wherein he says, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\"><p><\/p><p><em>For what purpose, then, do I make a man my friend? In order to have someone for whom I may die, whom I may follow into exile, against whose death I may stake my own life, and pay the pledge, too.<\/em><\/p><cite>Seneca<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>That&#8217;s <strong>friendship!<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\">2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span> \u201cFriendship is unnecessary,\u201d&nbsp;C.S. Lewis&nbsp;wrote,&nbsp;\u201clike philosophy, like art, like the universe itself\u2026 it has no survival value; rather it is one of those things which give&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/2019\/11\/07\/friendship-2\/\">Continue Reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Friendship<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[89],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5395"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5395"}],"version-history":[{"count":19,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5395\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6622,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5395\/revisions\/6622"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5395"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5395"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5395"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}