{"id":5789,"date":"2020-01-23T23:24:32","date_gmt":"2020-01-23T17:39:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/?p=5789"},"modified":"2020-01-25T20:36:24","modified_gmt":"2020-01-25T14:51:24","slug":"life-is-opinion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/2020\/01\/23\/life-is-opinion\/","title":{"rendered":"Life is Opinion"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\">2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube aligncenter wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"Sajjan Raj Vaidya - Somebody Else [Official Release]\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/DYIsV0yPgXU?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption>Sajjan Raj Vaidya &#8211; Somebody Else&nbsp;<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Under<strong>stating <\/strong>and understanding, that nothing must matter. That, Nothing will matter &#8212; was a ball dropper.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This was a necessary respite, in the face of occasional, excruciating drama &#8212; life sometimes malignantly inflicts upon us, whether we want it or not! Whether we&#8217;re prepared for it or not!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Before going any further, I want to be clear on <strong>one thing<\/strong> :- <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And that is&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To me, becoming wise, is not a swank.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, it has always been about my surgical curiosity <strong>to<\/strong> <strong>learn<\/strong> <strong>more<\/strong>. The obsession, precisely.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To me, it&#8217;s a shameless <strong>journey<\/strong> of my <strong>journey<\/strong>. (Shameless, because I still don&#8217;t know much about so many things.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It has always been like that and it&#8217;s worked for me thus far.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Around the same token, one of my dead friends, Marcus Aurelius, suggested, &#8220;Life is opinion.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dope!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Laconic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fucking Powerful!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nuclear!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>I remember, I&#8217;d cried many times over someone else&#8217;s poor judgements over me, my substance, my character, nature. And, my family have also shed tears for the same unsexy cause.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also,  my recent read <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Art-Possibility-Transforming-Professional-Personal\/dp\/0142001104\">The Art of Possibility: Transforming Professional and Personal Life<\/a>.&#8217; by Rosamund Stone Zander wherein she argues around the same lines as Aurelius intended. She writes, &#8220;It\u2019s all invented. Everything in life is an invention. The way we see things. The way we measure things. The way we compete. The way we judge ourselves.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-larger-font-size\">So, Folks, <strong>the world is ever-changing. It will change more. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-larger-font-size\"><strong>Life, well,.. sadly more often than not&#8211; ruminates around the inevitable suite of <\/strong>poorly-formed<strong>, <\/strong>ephemeral<strong> opinions which our <\/strong>heart<strong> and <\/strong>minds<strong> blindly, and dearly hold for <\/strong>us<strong>. Without objectivity, without weight, without real inquiry!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, Folks, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>at times, with time &#8212;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:60px\">Un<strong>fuck<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:60px\"><strong>Change<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/2020-01-19-22.03.41-scaled-e1579796787754-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5790\" srcset=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/2020-01-19-22.03.41-scaled-e1579796787754-1024x768.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/2020-01-19-22.03.41-scaled-e1579796787754-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/2020-01-19-22.03.41-scaled-e1579796787754-768x576.jpg 768w, http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/2020-01-19-22.03.41-scaled-e1579796787754-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/2020-01-19-22.03.41-scaled-e1579796787754-2048x1536.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption><em>This was me and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lanahktnahsus\/\">Sushant Khanal<\/a> this past week, hiking.<br>Unfucking!<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-larger-font-size\"><strong>p.s.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"921\" height=\"726\" src=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/44757610_490879274726233_8687692188498735323_n.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5820\" srcset=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/44757610_490879274726233_8687692188498735323_n.jpg 921w, http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/44757610_490879274726233_8687692188498735323_n-300x236.jpg 300w, http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/44757610_490879274726233_8687692188498735323_n-768x605.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 921px) 100vw, 921px\" \/><figcaption><strong><em>a year ago. WTF!<\/em><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-larger-font-size\"><strong>p.p.s.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On a side note, I&#8217;d also recommend you dig more on &#8212; <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=Iy7nWXiVVf4\">Memento mori<\/a><\/strong> too. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\">2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span> Understating and understanding, that nothing must matter. That, Nothing will matter &#8212; was a ball dropper. This was a necessary respite, in the face of&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/2020\/01\/23\/life-is-opinion\/\">Continue Reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Life is Opinion<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[89],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5789"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5789"}],"version-history":[{"count":40,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5789\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5833,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5789\/revisions\/5833"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5789"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5789"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5789"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}