{"id":5848,"date":"2020-02-06T23:58:00","date_gmt":"2020-02-06T18:13:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/?p=5848"},"modified":"2020-02-07T10:05:09","modified_gmt":"2020-02-07T04:20:09","slug":"put-your-love-into-test","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/2020\/02\/06\/put-your-love-into-test\/","title":{"rendered":"Put Your Love Into Test"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\">2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube alignwide wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"Dan Berk - Solo\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/YTmP1uD4buM?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>In the early 2015, I&#8217;d read a classic, deep-shit by one of my mentor,<strong> Dr. <a href=\"https:\/\/plato.stanford.edu\/entries\/nietzsche\/\">Friedrich Nietzsche<\/a><\/strong>, who was also a very hard-core german philosopher by profession.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In his book, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Human-All-Too-Human-Spirits-Great-Philosophy\/dp\/1591026784\">Human, All Too Human: A Book for Free Spirits<\/a>, he&#8217;d instructeded,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:40px\" class=\"has-text-color has-background has-text-align-center has-very-light-gray-color has-very-dark-gray-background-color\">It is&nbsp;<strong>not<\/strong>&nbsp;a&nbsp;<strong>lack of love<\/strong>,&nbsp;<strong>but<\/strong>&nbsp;a&nbsp;<strong>lack of friendship that<\/strong>&nbsp;makes unhappy&nbsp;<strong>marriages<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I remember, as soon as i read that hot, sexy, steaming line in the book; it was nothing short of <strong>Holy fuck!<\/strong> moment on me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because, that was it! That was fucking it! &#8212; the true skin, flesh and bones of a very successful failed relationship was all naked there!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Since then, I&#8217;ve been measuring my own romanticism&#8217;s depth and breadth from this dependable compass long offered to us by<strong> Mr. <a href=\"https:\/\/plato.stanford.edu\/entries\/nietzsche\/\">Nietzsche<\/a><\/strong> for fucking free.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>p.s. ensues the feels of writing &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/2019\/04\/18\/3am-friend\/\">3<strong>AM friend.<\/strong>&#8220;<\/a> . <\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-background has-very-dark-gray-background-color has-very-dark-gray-color is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Okay, so, let&#8217;s put your <strong>love<\/strong> into test through the same microscope.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Shall we?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let&#8217;s begin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A simple inquiry or self-reflection will do. That, with your partner, are you fucking sure that you guys are <strong>THE<\/strong> <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Human-All-Too-Human-Spirits-Great-Philosophy\/dp\/1591026784\">best<\/a><\/strong> of friends? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>[pause] <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>[think] <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>[connect the dots] <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>[you&#8217;re good at making patterns by evolution &#8212; fucking make one here real quick] <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>[still thinking]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>[still reading] <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>[think] &#8230;. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-background has-very-dark-gray-background-color has-very-dark-gray-color is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, if your answer is <strong>&#8216;No&#8217;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fucking leave pal, before it&#8217;s too late. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:13px\">Bonus: if you want to dig in a little bit more as to why I say that (in a heartbeat); read <a href=\"https:\/\/jamesclear.com\/entropy\">this article<\/a> by one of my mentor <a href=\"https:\/\/jamesclear.com\/\">Mr. James Clear ( the author of Atomic Habits)<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Contrarily, if your reaction to that same question is<strong> <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=kHIsykDiAds\"><strong>&#8216;Hell! FooooooOking Yeah&#8217;<\/strong> <\/a>  <strong>&lt;&lt;<\/strong>  [click that link]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then, you&#8217;re without-a-shred-of doubt, one hell of a fortunate big time cracker!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:13px\">Again, if you don&#8217;t buy my view on the matter, here&#8217;s the <a href=\"https:\/\/news.harvard.edu\/gazette\/story\/2017\/04\/over-nearly-80-years-harvard-study-has-been-showing-how-to-live-a-healthy-and-happy-life\/\">world&#8217;s oldest longitudinal study done on happiness <\/a>at Harvard, backing up that claim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-background has-very-dark-gray-background-color has-very-dark-gray-color is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>To the nutshell, I&#8217;d request you all to make fucking sure that you&#8217;ve all the ingredients of<strong> full moon friendship<\/strong> before you would decide to put an end to your fuckaround-behavior, and actually <strong>marry<\/strong> your d<strong>ream partner in crime.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>Virtues like :-<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Honesty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Trust.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Respect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Humility.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Understanding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Support.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unconditional love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kindness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Care.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Warmth! Friendship! Friendship!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And, most certainly, (a not to miss)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>A Holy Fucking humor<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, make sure you tick all those boxes before deciding to fire your fucking shuttle ae&#8217;!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Good luck!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nites!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-large-font-size\">&#x270c;&#xfe0f;&amp; &#x2764;&#xfe0f;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\">2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span> In the early 2015, I&#8217;d read a classic, deep-shit by one of my mentor, Dr. Friedrich Nietzsche, who was also a very hard-core german philosopher&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/2020\/02\/06\/put-your-love-into-test\/\">Continue Reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Put Your Love Into Test<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[89],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5848"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5848"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5848\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5861,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5848\/revisions\/5861"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5848"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5848"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5848"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}