{"id":6083,"date":"2020-04-30T22:32:00","date_gmt":"2020-04-30T16:47:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/?p=6083"},"modified":"2020-05-04T01:32:20","modified_gmt":"2020-05-03T19:47:20","slug":"who-and-what-you-should-fear-the-most","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/2020\/04\/30\/who-and-what-you-should-fear-the-most\/","title":{"rendered":"Who and What you should fear the most?"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\">2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote has-text-align-center is-style-large\"><p>Not taking things personally is a superpower.<\/p><cite>James Clear<em> (Author of Atomic Habits)<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube alignwide wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"Ocean - Native\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/yk63PBHj2g4?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption>Ocean &#8211; Native<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Fear is not bad. Is, it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Matter of fact, fear is without-a-doubt, the best life tool!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But wait!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It depends on what sort-of fear is it that keeps you awake. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fighting. Fucked. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unresting. Unsatisfied. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Investing. Investigating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>A <\/em>q<em>uestion lingers.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-large-font-size\"><strong>Who and  What you should fear the most?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>the virus?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.. for <em>students<\/em>\u200a\u2014\u200aperhaps their self-centered teacher?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.. for <em>laborers<\/em>\u200a\u2014\u200amaybe their pain-in-the-ass boss?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.. ignorant parents?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.. selfish girlfriend?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.. disloyal boyfriend?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.. of being wrong?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.. of perhaps boredom too?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.. dear addictions?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.. your one-sided love?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.. losing health slash getting cancer?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.. loneliness?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.. emptiness in emptiness?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.. the excruciating, ruminating, painful, stressing, pressing, rumbling thoughts after thoughts?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.. spineless people and their IMHO <em>fucked-up<\/em> point-of-views?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.. injustice?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.. losing your loved ones?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.. never-ending problems?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.. the world itself?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.. maybe life?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.. <strong>death?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, today I want to present to you with an antidote to all your fears for all the wrong reasons.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Again, unsolicited.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A genuinely, very very important inquiry apparatus for seeking the truth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A baby question but so profound.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Just ask: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Is this thing that I&#8217;m constantly thinking about, worrying about, fearing about, nagging about, complaining about, pissed-off about, fussing about &#8212; <strong>in <\/strong>or <strong>out<\/strong> of my hands, <strong>in<\/strong> or <strong>out<\/strong> of my control?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That&#8217;s it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Be deliberately, un-foolishly, un-emotionally objective.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>And, talking about good fears.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fear certainty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fear not learning, not growing or more verbosely put &#8212; <strong>The Stagnancy<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fear not knowing the difference between objectivity and superficiality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fear not asking THE RIGHT QUESTIONS?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Fear stale, stupid days.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fear lying. Fear not telling the truth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fear taking yourself too seriously.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fear not taking responsibility of your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fear for the right thing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>On a departing note for the week my friend:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This short <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=XWwNocaIWxg\">video<\/a> by my mentor Tim Ferris will hopefully enlighten some heavy shits out of you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Happy Thursday!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\">2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span> Not taking things personally is a superpower. James Clear (Author of Atomic Habits) Fear is not bad. Is, it? Matter of fact, fear is without-a-doubt,&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/2020\/04\/30\/who-and-what-you-should-fear-the-most\/\">Continue Reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Who and What you should fear the most?<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[82,89],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6083"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6083"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6083\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6085,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6083\/revisions\/6085"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6083"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6083"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6083"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}