{"id":6290,"date":"2020-08-20T22:25:37","date_gmt":"2020-08-20T16:40:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/?p=6290"},"modified":"2020-08-31T08:58:43","modified_gmt":"2020-08-31T03:13:43","slug":"simple-little-things","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/2020\/08\/20\/simple-little-things\/","title":{"rendered":"Simple. Little. Things."},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\">3<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-style-large\"><p>It&#8217;s sad. Most of us don&#8217;t realize what we have unless we don&#8217;t have it, anymore.<\/p><cite>Musicpervs<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"DHRUV AND KAVYA BREAKUP | AJNABEE | LITTLE THINGS 3 | PART-2\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/pc8_xB7I6lo?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption>Ajnabee &#8211; Little Things<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container\">\n<pre class=\"wp-block-verse has-text-align-left\">In a world where<strong> real love is a lot of hard work<\/strong> where friction is inevitable.\nAnd<strong> true love still, is never a conflict<\/strong>-free<strong> love.<\/strong>\n\nNever take him .... Not, to take her... \nYes, don't you make a mistake of taking your beloved for <strong>granted!<\/strong>\n\np. s. Remember. The Balance Sheet of love also has<em> Assets, Liabilities, Expenses, Overdrafts<\/em> and <em>Adjustments<\/em>.\n\n<strong>Let's start from there.<\/strong>\n<\/pre>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Little things in relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you&#8217;re a vivid reader of this small blog; You must&#8217;ve come across many such posts that speaks of<strong> the must haves&#8217;<\/strong> and <strong>the havenots&#8217;<\/strong> &#8212; recipes for a &#8216;good-enough&#8217; relationships. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m certain I&#8217;ve spoken enough, in imaginable length, breadth and the depth about the <strong>real.love.ingredients<\/strong> that make up for a <strong>real.love.relationships<\/strong>. A pure partnership per se or simply <strong>Friendship<\/strong>. The genuine <strong>Reciprocity<\/strong>. Loads and loads of <strong>Humor<\/strong>, for sure. The unadulterated <strong>Honesty<\/strong>. Radiating and re-assuring <strong>Emotional Security<\/strong>. Shared <strong>Responsibility<\/strong>. Non-judgementism, Appreciation and <strong>Acceptance<\/strong>. Non-negotiable <strong>Understanding<\/strong> and a strong, very strong <strong>Support System<\/strong>. The Non-negotiable <strong>Respect<\/strong> too. Heavy stuff like organic, mutual <strong>growth<\/strong>, best jokes.<em> and so on<\/em> and <em>so forth<\/em>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But, Shit! Have I written anything about <strong>simple.little.things<\/strong> which actually, and in reality make up for a large portion of the &#8216;daily grind&#8217; that any&#8230;. any well-nourished, balanced and well-maintained r.e.l.a.t.i.o.n.s.h.i.p.s  &#8212; <strong>Go Through<\/strong> -&gt;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nope! Not that I recall.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery aligncenter columns-1 is-cropped\"><ul class=\"blocks-gallery-grid\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/These-Illustrations-Perfectly-Capture-How-The-Little-Things-Are-Most-Important-In-A-Relationship-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"6291\" data-full-url=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/These-Illustrations-Perfectly-Capture-How-The-Little-Things-Are-Most-Important-In-A-Relationship.jpg\" data-link=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/?attachment_id=6291\" class=\"wp-image-6291\" srcset=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/These-Illustrations-Perfectly-Capture-How-The-Little-Things-Are-Most-Important-In-A-Relationship-1024x576.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/These-Illustrations-Perfectly-Capture-How-The-Little-Things-Are-Most-Important-In-A-Relationship-300x169.jpg 300w, http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/These-Illustrations-Perfectly-Capture-How-The-Little-Things-Are-Most-Important-In-A-Relationship-768x432.jpg 768w, http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/These-Illustrations-Perfectly-Capture-How-The-Little-Things-Are-Most-Important-In-A-Relationship-1536x864.jpg 1536w, http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/These-Illustrations-Perfectly-Capture-How-The-Little-Things-Are-Most-Important-In-A-Relationship.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><figcaption class=\"blocks-gallery-caption\"><sup>Src: <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/threeundertherain\/\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/threeundertherain\/<\/a><\/sup><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>[Sidenote: She asked me if I&#8217;d write on &#8216;little things&#8217; after having binged Netflix series &#8216;<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.netflix.com\/np\/title\/81011159\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Little Things<\/strong>&#8216;<\/a> together.]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> So, here I am. And, here it is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Frankly, I don&#8217;t have 10 little, secret things you can do to pump up and launch your relationship to a sweet-next level, with your partner in crime, but sure I have some food for thoughts to share on the same.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>[haha]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cool. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, allow me to  present to you my flavor of &#8216;little things&#8217; that we all can do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container\">\n<ul><li>A simple wake up and wind down texts. <\/li><li>Explore overlapping interests. May be food. Travel. Games. Pick anything. And do them. Freaking indulge,&#8230; responsibly though.<\/li><li>Watch movies together. Eat ice-cream, drink coffee, enjoy your mint lemonade whatever you like. Go to concerts together. Cook together. Find out and solve problems together. Go, shopping together. Do weird, silly stunts together &#8212; merely for a bellyful of laughs and gasps. Doesn&#8217;t have to make sense! Share, listen to songs together. Dance together for no reason. Unpack your whole package together. &#8230; Don&#8217;t think dirty! [haha]<\/li><li>Ask stupid questions.  Ask, how was your day, How you feeling, questions? Take meaningless selfies. Make funny, stupid videos. Bitch about life&#8217;s unfairness and it&#8217;s suckers.<\/li><li>Plus, an advice from my married-best-friend, <strong>&#8220;Take things lightly whenever you have disagreements and talk about it later with cool head&#8221;<\/strong>. <\/li><li>Give each other sweet, little, frequent<strong> <\/strong>surprises. Take each other out for unplanned treat, retreats <strong>[emphasis added]<\/strong>. <\/li><li>Oh yeah! And please compliment. Compliment dudes.<\/li><li>Kiss. Cuddle. Chumpy. Massage. Shower. Walk. Do Tik-toks if you have to. <\/li><li>Encourage one another. Just <strong>Be.there.for.each.other<\/strong> &#8212; side-by-side, nail and flesh.<\/li><li>Take inventories of each other&#8217;s favorite things as well as painful problems. Listen. Listen, and help each other out when things aren&#8217;t right.<\/li><li>Make your significant other feel he\/she is special and taken care of and taken care for.<\/li><\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Life&#8217;s good if<strong> little things<\/strong> are taken care of man. And I guess, rest will follow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>p.s. Enjoy <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=8JOh8nNaPeo\" target=\"_blank\">One of those days<\/a> for a secret to a perfect relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>p.p.s I&#8217;m also learning bits and pieces in this department.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\">3<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span> It&#8217;s sad. Most of us don&#8217;t realize what we have unless we don&#8217;t have it, anymore. Musicpervs Little things in relationships. If you&#8217;re a vivid&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/2020\/08\/20\/simple-little-things\/\">Continue Reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Simple. Little. 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