{"id":6389,"date":"2020-11-12T22:16:32","date_gmt":"2020-11-12T16:31:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/?p=6389"},"modified":"2020-11-13T10:42:04","modified_gmt":"2020-11-13T04:57:04","slug":"the-one","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/2020\/11\/12\/the-one\/","title":{"rendered":"The One"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\">2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-style-large\"><p>Genuine Friends Don\u2019t Keep Scorecards<\/p><p>~ Marcus Aurelius<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube alignwide wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"Prateek Kuhad - did you\/fall apart | Audiotree Live\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Gis1DVmPFp8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption><sup>Prateek Kuhad &#8211; did you\/fall apart<\/sup><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I was once unsure if anybody would <strong><span class=\"has-inline-color has-cyan-bluish-gray-color\">like<\/span><\/strong> me, let alone <span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-red-color\"><strong>fall in love<\/strong><\/span> with <strong><span class=\"has-inline-color has-black-color\">me<\/span><\/strong>. <strong>or&nbsp;<\/strong>accept me&nbsp;<strong>for who I was<\/strong>. I use to feel ugly, lacking, and&nbsp;&#8230; <strong>fucked <span class=\"has-inline-color has-black-color\">gorgeously<\/span>!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>That&#8217;s my story when i was in my 10th, 11th, 12th all the way to the 2nd year of my undergraduate degree at <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/islington.edu.np\/\" target=\"_blank\">Islington<\/a>. But after that, something organically changed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Long story short, I clearly remember that this holy ramification in my mindset over my own identity came about only after I met my best friend. <strong><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/manish.rajbhandari\/\" target=\"_blank\">Manish<\/a><\/strong> &#8212; a sweetheart of Tangal, Patan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As, someone wise, unbeknownst once said, <em><strong>all you need to get through all the shitloads of thick-and-thins in life &#8212; is just one person<\/strong><\/em>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"has-larger-font-size\">Fuck,<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h2><strong><span class=\"has-inline-color has-black-color\">He is the one in my life!<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>He taught me to take care of my own shit. Embarrassing and Inflammatory as it may sound but he honestly did teach me to dress up, taught me to talk to seniors or even the girls; For simplicity sake, let&#8217;s just say that HE&#8217;s the one who had me <strong>Man Up!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Above all, he also (<em>without-him-knowing<\/em>) taught me an important lesson for life, and, i.e, &#8212; to <strong>Love Myself<\/strong>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size\"><strong><span class=\"has-inline-color has-black-color\">YES<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-large-font-size\"><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-red-color\"><strong>L<\/strong>.O.<strong>V.E<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-larger-font-size\"><strong>Y.O.U.R.S.E.L.F!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>He&#8217;s a forever &#8212; Brother! <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/2019\/11\/07\/friendship-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Friend<\/a>!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>More on our bromance <strong><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/2017\/12\/03\/manish-rajbhandari\/\" target=\"_blank\">here.<\/a><\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or just search for &#8216;<em>Manish<\/em>&#8216; on this blog and you&#8217;ll find plenty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P.S. Feel free to fool around my articles, poems, <em>et cetera<\/em> from as early as <strong>2010 <\/strong><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"http:\/\/shresthabijay.blogspot.com\" target=\"_blank\"> <strong>here<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"682\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/2020-11-12-15.06.16-682x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6390\" srcset=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/2020-11-12-15.06.16-682x1024.jpg 682w, http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/2020-11-12-15.06.16-200x300.jpg 200w, http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/2020-11-12-15.06.16-768x1152.jpg 768w, http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/2020-11-12-15.06.16.jpg 853w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 682px) 100vw, 682px\" \/><figcaption>Photo Courtesy: SV<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\">2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span> Genuine Friends Don\u2019t Keep Scorecards ~ Marcus Aurelius I was once unsure if anybody would like me, let alone fall in love with me. or&nbsp;accept&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/2020\/11\/12\/the-one\/\">Continue Reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">The One<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[87,82,89],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6389"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6389"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6389\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6399,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6389\/revisions\/6399"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6389"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6389"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bijays.com.np\/musicpervs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6389"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}